I am a big believer in the impression you give to your class, and your employer, is a big factor in the treatment you will receive back. Your success in what you do you will have a direct correlation between your image and attitude image you project. It has been said that the world around you is like a mirror. How you react you will get back. Let’s face it, how many unhappy people do you know surrounded by happy people? How many successful, eager up and coming people do you know who hang around those who appear to be losers? If you want to change your surroundings it may be best to start by making a few changes to your image. As they say, first impression will make a lasting one.
With the New Year upon us it is important to get off to a good start and best of all you hold the key. The tips below will apply to your class room, meeting new people in a social setting and making a good impression with an employer.
Here are a few tips for making a good impression:
1. Own the room. When you enter the building, stand tall and walk in with confidence.
2. Smile. You'll appear more approachable and confident.
3. Be the first to reach out. Extend your hand and give a firm handshake when meeting a parent or applying for a job. A weak handshake is an immediate turn off.
4. Look directly into someone's eyes. Do not scan the room while talking to one person. This is especially important when you are giving a correction to a student or meeting a parent for the first time.
5. Don't chew gum when you enter the building.
6. Speak clearly and pause. Sloppy or hurried speech is perceived as negative. Eliminate slang.
7. Be fully present. Focus on the person and listen non-verbally with body language and with words.
8. Ask questions about them instead of talking about yourself.
9. Find common ground quickly. This will build instant rapport.
10. Give compliments. Your students will respond better to their correction, your employer will appreciate that you notice any positive changes and parents will love that you care!
11. Paraphrase. It's a form of acknowledging people. This skill makes you very attractive. It communicates you're listening.
12. Have something interesting to say. Comment on the other person's interests.
13.Be a giver. Offer a tip or an introduction to others. Give without expecting anything in return.
14.Mirror the other person. Match their speaking rate, volume level, and words. If they speak fast, quicken your pace. If they are soft-spoken, lower your volume. People like people who are most like them.
Remember: It takes 7 seconds or less to make a good first impression. You're always on stage.
